Here is what such detailed documents tell us about the state of mind of an individual as shared by Dr. Chandni Tagneet, Life Alchemist, Coach and Healer, Founder and Director, Gateway of Healing.
1. The need for justice and truth: The complex documents indicate a powerful desire for justice that trumps personal survival. When someone takes the time to record their experiences in detail during their final hours, it demonstrates a deep-rooted need to ensure that their story is understood in an unbiased and accurate way. . This level of integrity reflects a lifelong commitment to truth and accountability.
2. Paradoxical Comfort: The ability to maintain composure when creating extensive documents can seem counterintuitive. This calm usually appears when a person moves beyond the initial turmoil into a state of resignation. Such harmony often develops after prolonged periods of stress, especially in situations involving protracted legal battles and family conflicts.
3. Protecting loved ones: Detailed documentation often serves as a final act of protection for family members. By providing clear context and evidence, the individual tries to save their loved ones from future complications or misunderstandings. This attitude shows an intact sense of responsibility even in moments of extreme personal crisis.
4. Control Mechanism: The act of organizing and documenting thoughts and experiences is a way to maintain control. When individuals feel powerless, this mechanism becomes their ultimate assertion of agency. It represents an attempt to order chaos, even when all other options seem exhausted.
5. Difficulty concentrating: The apparent calm in such documents should not be mistaken for emotional detachment. Instead, it represents an altered state of distress where constant pain is transformed into intense focus. This condition emerges after prolonged periods of stress, indicating extensive processing of their situation.
6. Systematic Disorder: These cases show how prolonged systemic stress can systematically break even the most composed individuals. Detailed documentation shows how legal and social systems can create persistent tensions that lead to carefully planned exclusions rather than proactive measures.
7. Final Statement of Purpose: The presence of detailed documentation often represents more than acceptance—it is a last-ditch effort to make meaning out of suffering and a last-ditch cry for justice. Keeping this comprehensive record shows a desire to make sure their experience serves a great purpose, even if they aren’t there to see it.
8. Long Term Stress Proof: Completeness of documentation often indicates someone who has been exposed to stress for a long time and has had time to process their thoughts and experiences. This is not a hasty decision, but the culmination of long suffering.
The existence of such detailed final documents should serve as a powerful reminder of the need for a more humane and effective resolution system in legal and social disputes. The calm, methodical nature of such documents isn’t really comfort—it’s often the last manifestation of deep despair, where clarity and hopelessness meet in a tragic intersection.
(Discussions on suicides can be triggering for some people. But suicides can be prevented. If you are looking for help, there are some helpline numbers for suicide prevention in India 011-40769002 from Sanjeevini ( in Delhi, 10 am to 5.30 pm) and 044-24640050 Sneha Foundation (based in Chennai, 8 am to 10 am) pm), Vandriwala Foundation (based in Mumbai, 24×7) to +91 9999666555.