When it comes to honor in a family, children are often overlooked. Respect is considered a one-way street that goes from the small to the big. However, the reality is far from the truth and how respect should actually be understood.
Respect for children is fundamental to their emotional, social and cognitive development. Treating children with respect creates a nurturing environment that encourages them to grow into confident, compassionate, and responsible individuals.
Children see their value in how others treat and respect them.
You should respect children because children determine their worth by how adults treat them. When you gently talk, listen and validate how they feel, it somehow boosts their self-esteem.
Respectful behavior allows children to express their ideas openly. When they feel their voices are heard and understood, they express their opinions, concerns, and goals. Trust is built, and the bond between parent and child or teacher and student is strengthened by an open exchange of ideas.
Respectful interactions show children that they are valued, which ultimately helps them build a positive self-image and builds their confidence in what they do.
Disrespect often leads to rebellion and resistance.
When you respect children, you reduce conflict and actually create an environment for cooperation. That way, instead of authority, you base guidance on an understanding.
If you respect children, you offer ways to resolve differences constructively. They understand that arguing need not lead to anger or disrespect and will help them face life’s challenges head on.
Everyday strategies that will change your child’s personality.
Respecting children’s feelings, even when upset or frustrated, forces them to learn emotional management. Rejected responses discourage children. When approached gently, children understand how to deal with complex feelings productively.
How to respect children
- Pay attention to what they are saying without interrupting or dismissing their ideas.
- Validate their feelings, even if you don’t fully agree or understand them.
- Use polite and encouraging language, avoiding criticism or ridicule.
- Give them time to express themselves or complete the task at their own pace.
- Knock before entering their room or ask permission before sharing their personal stories.
- Give them a say in matters that affect them, such as food choices or family outings.