In 18th-century Europe, guests were required to bring their own eating utensils, such as spoons and forks, when invited to a meal.
In medieval Europe it was common to wipe hands on the table while eating. (Representative image)
Throughout history, people of different cultures have been governed by strange and rigid rules. If these principles were still in place today, it is safe to say that many people would prefer to leave the world rather than live in such oppressive conditions. These strange rules often limit basic human behavior, from laughing to engaging in casual conversation.
Over time, humanity has evolved, discarding many customs, beliefs, and restrictions that were once widespread. Some of these principles were so unusual that if applied today, they would seem downright suffocating. Here are the 10 strangest dating etiquette rules:
1. Do not look to the king
In ancient Japan, China, and Rome, commoners were forbidden to look the emperor directly in the eye. Although this rule varies by culture and time. For example, when a Roman emperor returned victorious, citizens were required to look at him as he passed through the streets.
2. Have no affection towards children.
In the past, it was believed that showing affection to babies, such as hugging or kissing, could weaken them. Crying babies were also expected to be quiet and it was considered inappropriate to comfort them.
3. Showing both hands was rude.
In the 1700s it was considered rude to show both hands when talking. People often hid one hand inside their coat or thumb when speaking and this is reflected in the artwork of this period.
4. Bring your own dishes for dinner
In 18th-century Europe, guests were required to bring their own eating utensils, such as spoons and forks, when invited to a meal. People often brought silver or gold vessels based on their social status.
5. Ladies can only have one glass of champagne.
In the Victorian era, women had to maintain a high standard of decorum at dinner parties. It was considered inappropriate to drink more than a glass of champagne, and alcohol was generally considered inappropriate for women, as they could be judged harshly for acting out of character.
6. Wiping hands at the table
In medieval Europe, it was common to wipe hands on the table while eating, as napkins were not in use at the time. This was an accepted social practice, although today it would be considered rude and unhealthy.
7. Spitting on the floor was acceptable.
Along with wiping hands on the table, it was also common to spit bones and other food scraps onto the dining room floor. The host’s servants would clean up after the guests, further explaining how the standards of etiquette differed.
8. Laughing was forbidden.
In formal settings, laughter was not allowed. Even if something funny happened, it was considered inappropriate to laugh out loud. If laughter was unavoidable, it had to be stifled, guests covering their mouths to stifle any sound.
9. It was forbidden to step on the threshold.
In ancient Egypt, the threshold of a house was considered sacred, as it was believed to be protected by divine forces. Visitors were forbidden to stand on this threshold. They were expected to cross it as soon as they entered.
10. Men couldn’t talk to women before.
In Victorian England, women had limited freedom, but they could choose when to initiate a conversation with a man. Men were not allowed to speak to women unless the woman spoke to them first, underscoring the strict social norms that governed gender interaction.
These strange customs serve as a reminder of how far society has come in promoting individual freedom and social equality.